1. Would you say that you’re good at keeping in touch with people?
I am much better at it since e-mail. I always mean to pen actual notes, and sometimes I even do, only to forget to mail them; at some point the news in them becomes embarrassingly old and I discard the sealed envelope only to begin afresh. But I am very good about answering e-mail!
2. Which communication method do you usually prefer/use: e-mail, telephone, snail mail, blog comments, or meeting in person? Why?
Nothing beats getting something in the mail and having that handwriting to cherish. Next to that, I prefer e-mail because (1) I am an archivist at heart and I love being able to go back and look at old correspondence, (2) it is so timely and (3) it is so convenient.
3. Do you have an instant messenger program? How many? Why/why not? How often do you use it?
Yes, I have several. I used the free version of Trillian for a while because it allowed me to combine the three IM programs I use into a single application, but it was buggy and I finally decided it wasn’t worth the hassle. I use MSN predominantly, though I’m careful to only chat with those I know from elsewhere. I use it daily, several times a day. I also use Yahoo IM and, on occasion, AOL IM.
4. Do most of your close friends live nearby or far away?
My closest friends, my years-long friends live within an hour or so radius of us, and that’s nice. Other friends I’ve met online and, later, in the flesh, are spread all around the country! I love the Internet. 🙂
5. Are you an “out of sight, out of mind” person, or do you believe that “distance makes the heart grow fonder”?
I think it largely depends on the quality of your relationship with that person. Certainly the personality quirks which annoy us seem distant; it’s easy to glamorize a person in absentia. Conversely, a good friend is a sweet breath of fresh air you come to miss like the scent of flowers in the winter.
J.M. Barrie says it best: “God gave us memory so that we might have roses in December”. So it is with friends, yes?